Note : In this first article, I'm a little tired of the hair trigger flaming I've come to expect, and so I use a pseudonym. Completely unnecessary, as it turns out. Posted by Honest Man on April 15, 2000 at 11:36:48: In Reply to: Where to meet nice professional men? Clubs or Bars? posted by Sally on April 04, 2000 at 11:51:20: > .. I really need to find a place where I can meet Madame, the right place will do you no good, if you lack the right outlook. You want to know where you can find a "nice guy" with a professional job. But anyone intelligent enough to be a professional knows that poverty or underemployment can be as close as the next economic downturn, or the next immature ex-frat boy boss who decides to replace him with an ex-drinking buddy from Sigma Chi. Wealth and good fortune are undependable friends, and if that is what you seek in a man, so are you. Nice men expect better. They expect women who will be nice to them in return, and someone one can't count on, isn't being very nice at all. But even if his wealth was assured - and that isn't even true for Bill Gates, any more - any intelligent man knows that a women who seeks rich men to date would be dating his wallet, not him. Amazing, how many women in the bars will complain about the phoniness of the men they find in bars - as they seek someone to put on a show of affection for, in order to turn a tidy profit, in exchange for little effort. What could be more phony than that? What others would expect of you, is what you can ultimately expect of them. Let's return to the previous page, now. |